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Tuesday, January 31, 2006

CCAA Move

As expected, there aren't a lot of rumors this week, just lots of speculation. There is still a big mystery around when the CCAA will move. It's been rumored for a while that they would move after CNY. One rumor even says that is why they are only taking off for one week this year for CNY instead of their usual two weeks. Our agency verifies they were told months ago that the CCAA would be moving in mid February, but they have heard nothing since and don't know anything else. Amy Eldridge was recently in China and visited the CCAA. She says it is true they are moving "soon", but she doesn't know when.

Thursday, January 26, 2006

Possible New Orphanage

Thank you to everyone who emailed me about the possible new orphanage being discussed on APC. The new parents are looking for the Beilui SWI, in Beiliu City, near Yulin in Guangxi. The new mother even goes so far as to say that their agency told them this agency is new to the program. The rumor queen has searched and has found the same link others have found: http://www.redthreadmaps.com/guangxi_o.html And that seems to be the only thing out there on this orphanage. However, this woman did not say whether this is a special needs adoption or not. If it is special needs then we shouldn't get excited.

Wednesday, January 25, 2006

Trickling in

Referrals are starting to trickle in. Now there will be a couple of weeks with (presumably) no new rumors, since the CCAA will not be there next week. I wish we had some knowledge of when the CCAA plans to move to their new building. One rumor says they will do that upon their return from the CNY holiday, another says they are still a long way from moving into it. If they do move into it after they return, I hope to see the next referrals in early to mid March. If they do not, and they get right back to work, then we may see them in late February or the first week of March.

Referrals have arrived in Ireland

Ireland received their referrals - apparently all were in Guangdong province. I hope we see the lists light up with referrals today.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

CCAA site change, let's see if it sticks this time

The site now shows (7 am eastern time) that they have completed documents registered before 5/13.

Monday, January 23, 2006

CCAA site finally back up

It is 8:15 EST (or maybe EDT, I forget) and the CCAA site is finally back up, after being down since around 8 or 9 this morning. It is still showing the 4/25 date on both the English and Chinese versions.

CCAA website change, and then not

According to many, the CCAA website showed after midnight last night (which would be mid-day Monday in China) that they had matched through May 13th. This morning it shows April 25th. Someone from Norway reports that their agency checked with the CCAA about it and was told that the dossiers were not actually ready yet, but they will be sent very soon.

Friday, January 20, 2006

Spanish Rumor

The Spanish agencies have told their people that referrals went out today and will include through May 12. It's now the middle of the night, Friday night, in China, and the CCAA's site is down. I checked it this morning (which would have been about 9:00 Friday night in China) and it was not updated. Maybe they forgot? But, the bigger question is... why send them today? They are working all next week, are those matches going to sit on someone's desk while they are on vacation?

Consulate in Guangzhou

This article in the Shanghai Daily that says the US Consulate in Guanghzou just opened their new district in the TianHe District, and that "the capability of the new office to handle immigration visa applicants would increase 50 percent." I'm confused - they moved in August, here is the press release from that on the consulate's web site This page shows that the wait time for an appt is now four weeks. But I think it might be more than that. If you wait a month for Travel Approval, and then your agency can get a consulate appt in 4 weeks, then you would leave two weeks after TA (because you have to be there two weeks before your appt) or six weeks after referral. But I'm not seeing that happen a lot, so I'm not so sure that the 4 weeks is all that accurate. So, I hope that this means the US Consulate can shorten the wait to travel, but I'm really confused about the discrepancy. Anyone out there with more info about this?

Thursday, January 19, 2006

May 2005

I found this page, showing the official holidays for China in 2005. The first week of May was a holiday, they returned to work on May 9th. So, going through May 12 means they have only done 4 days of May. Looking at the calendar, April 26 through May 12th (with the week holiday) is only 8 business days. Two days short of two weeks.

CCAA site updated, and some rumors

The CCAA site notes that it has completed reviewing June. Finally. (no, they didn't say finally, that's my appraisal of the situation) Under Important News there is a new item not yet translated. I took a look at it, and it appears that a very important woman in Hubei province died, and this is apparently a great loss to the CCAA. It looks like she has done a lot in her province, and that she will be greatly missed. In referral rumor news, all of the rumors are still centering around two dates for the next cut off date, May 10th and May 12th. The rumors say they should be sent soon, but according to our agency the CCAA has another week to work, their last day is supposed to be the 27th.

Wednesday, January 18, 2006

May is being matched

CCAI has apparently told their clients that the CCAA is currently matching May. No word on when they will be mailed, or how far along they will get in May before they mail the next batch. Or even when they will mail the next batch. Also, someone with a 7/20 LID was told by their agency (no idea who the agency is) to expect their referral in March or April and to travel no later than June. I've got this one noted, but I'm not going to hold my breath for March for them. April is a maybe, but not a strong maybe.

Tuesday, January 17, 2006

From a Bethany person

Someone from Bethany with a 5/24 LID was told by Bethany to expect her referral sometime in March. Which sounds like a good guess to me. Assuming they get through May 10 or 12 with this next batch. And assuming they do more than two weeks in the March batch. That's all I can find. After the onslaught of rumors last week, there is (dare I say it?) nothing again.

Sunday, January 15, 2006

Spanish Site

The Google translation of the Spanish site says:
14 of January A new turn of allocations in less is expected than 2 weeks, we do not have data on the date of cut of this new group.
This sounds to me like they are saying that they expect the next batch within the next two weeks and don't know what log in dates that batch will cover.

Friday, January 13, 2006

White Swan guests sent elsewhere

This would just totally tick me off. This article talks about the crazy man from North Korea, Kim Jong-il's visit to China.
Tight security around a five-star hotel in southern China on Friday fed speculation that North Korean leader Kim Jong-il is visiting as diplomatic efforts to restart talks on the North's nuclear program gathered pace. Hundreds of uniformed and plainclothes police swarmed in and around the opulent White Swan Hotel in Guangzhou, capital of Guangdong province, putting up road blocks leading to the hotel. Passers-by and bystanders were turned away.
and then a bit later in the article
Employees at the White Swan Hotel said the Chinese government had booked the entire hotel for several days. "A VIP is coming but we don't know when," a woman who works at one of the hotel's restaurants said by telephone. A front desk receptionist said the hotel was fully booked. "We had to send our guests to other hotels ... We will only open for regular business on the morning of the 16th," a third employee said.
I will be all kinds of ticked off if they send us away from the White Swan so one idiotic crazy man can have the whole hotel to himself. I mean, if nuke talks had a snowballs chance in hell with him that might be different, but they don't. I haven't heard from any adopters who were chased off because of this... I just can't imagine the stress of it.

Updated Spreadsheet including March

Someone told me the membership number for March. The new average is 391 and the median is 373. Since many people seem to join the list they are DTC and the lists before and after their DTC group, I'm going to guess that the big DTC months are April and May, with the big LID months being May and June. I also find it interesting that the numbers go down so much once the wait started increasing. November and December are at almost half of the average (which means they've also brought the average way down, too). The average if you just figure from October of '04 through September of '05 is 419, and the median is 418. What might this mean as far as wait times? I have no idea. It's possible the CCAA has enough paperwork coming in from new orphanages to handle this without further slowing down. It's also possible they do not.

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Another source of data

Here are the membership numbers for DTC groups. The average is 383 and the median is 373. The 3/05 group has closed themselves off so you can't see how many people are in the group. If one of you are members, can you please let me know the number of members? Since many people join two or three groups, these numbers will be skewed and are not an exact science. But, it does show us that in general the April/May/June time frame got more referrals - possibly 1.4 times more referrals. So, what would normally take four weeks should take six weeks. But, China has been doing in two weeks what would have taken four weeks (meaning they are at 2.0 and not 1.4, if they were at 1.4 we'd be a couple of months ahead of where we are right now). I've got to think on this some more. And, hopefully we can find out how many people are in the March group. But, the way this looks, unless they start getting a whole lot more paperwork in from the orphanages, it's not going to speed back up until they get done with the May and June LID's. This is not what I was hoping the data would show.

And then there is this

The RumorQueen just saw this:
Today my agency posted on their internal bulletin board that last May the CCAA received 1800 dossiers! My agency also stated that in pastmonths, they had been receiving an average of 500 to 700 dossiers.
We are told that there have been around 7,000 adoption from the US per year, and that there are around 10,000 adoption out of China per year, total. Some say there are as many as 12,000 per year total. 10,000 / 12 months = around 800 dossiers per month. Which does not agree with this agency's statistics, making this info immediately suspect. I wonder what agency this is coming from? Anyone want to let me know? Either through the comments or you can send me an email. But, still. If this is true, then it could take a while for them to get through May. But then there is the rumor that comes from BLAS that they will refer September as early as April or May. Meaning they've got to get through May lickety split so they can get through June and July and August so they can do September. < Insert Charlie Brown scream here >

Analysis

The thing about analysis is that you have to feel pretty good about the facts you are basing your assumptions on. Take Minesweeper for instance, once you've marked a space as having a mine, if you aren't right about that, you'll eventually get blown up. It may not happen right away, you may go towards the left and be fine, but when you finally make your way around to the right side, you might get blown up for an assumption you made 40 seconds ago (which is an eternity in Minesweeper when your best time is less than a minute on the very hardest level). So, how do I analyze these latest rumors when the CCAA is currently not following their own patterns, and when all of the rumors don't seem to agree with each other. I will start with what they all seem to agree on. They all seem to agree that another batch is very close to being sent out and that it should arrive in the US sometime next week. The majority of them seem to think that at least some of May will be included, and many of them seem to focus on a date around the 10th or 12th. It's really hard to go much farther than that. The last three referral dates have been: 11/10 (5 weeks since previous referrals) 12/08 (4 weeks since previous referrals) 1/5 (4 weeks since previous referrals) If we have them arrive next week, they will be coming 2 weeks since the previous referrals. And if they cover through May 10, that will be 15 days worth of dossiers. That puts them back to "one month per month", albeit in a two week increment. That's probably the best news I've heard in a long time. If it is true.

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

And then there was another rumor

Gee, maybe I should lament about the lack of rumors more often. This one says:
According to a posting on a French board, an agency in Spain announced that referrals will leave China next week and will most certainly cover the rest of April and possibly a week or so of May. I've also been reading that the CCAA received twice the number of dossiers in May as they did in April.
So, we have conflicting rumors, again. I need a stiff drink before I even attempt an analysis.

And then there was a rumor

Was I just saying there are no rumors? Apparently the Spanish agency has informed their clients that the CCAA has completed through the end of April and they expect them to arrive early next week. If I want to be pessimistic I will say that they are going to do this and then we won't see referrals for another two months (in mid March) due to CNY. If I want to be optimistic then I have to think that maybe they will still get another batch out before CNY. This batch is exactly two weeks after the last batch. So, it's possible they can still do another batch in another two weeks. The question is - how far will it go? If this batch is covering about a week, and it took two weeks to do, then they are still doing half a month per month... just in a smaller batch. I'm beyond ready for them to start referring out a month (or more) every month. This half month stuff is for the birds. And, the real question (to me), is why this batch? Is it possible that the embassy has requested they start splitting up referrals so they don't have to deal with agencies calling them all at once for appointments? Maybe it's become necessary to start sending referrals more often? Or maybe since they are (supposedly) handling so many more dossiers, it makes sense to send them every two weeks instead of monthly? Surely they aren't trying to tell us that one week of dossiers right now equals one month of dossiers last year? No, I don't think that's it. We aren't seeing that many more referrals being posted to APC. My agency doesn't have that many more people, either. Okay, I obviously need more time to analyze this one. If it's even true. But, Spain is usually pretty accurate.

No new rumors. And, does anyone remember?

I haven't seen a new rumor in a while now. Not that I believe the most recent batch of rumors, but seeing some here and there is still nice. I check the CCAA site a couple of times a day to see if the information has changed. I also check the Chinese version while I'm at it, since they've changed the Chinese version before the English version in the past. Does anyone remember when May first showed as coming out of the review room? I think it was with the December referrals, meaning they've had a LOT of time to review June and aren't done yet? Were there that many June dossiers? That doesn't bode well. If anyone knows for sure when the CCAA site first showed May coming out of the review room, please either email me or leave a comment. I'd love it if someone noted it on their blog and we can see it in their archives.

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

Opinions on the Human Rights article

No one has an opinion on it? Really? Well, I have enough opinions for all of us, so here goes. One of the things I learned while in China is that they (in general) have a much deeper sense of personal responsibility than we do in the US. I think we Americans used to have it, but it's somehow gotten lost. Another difference in cultures is that we tend to put the rights of one person above the rights of many. In China, the rights of the collective are put above the rights of the individual. I'm going to comment on some specifics of the article.
Human rights are acquired by people instead of being given by God. Human rights are a product of social and historical situations. They are the rights society gives to its members.
This is a bit different than how we think, as we do tend to ascribe rights as being "Given by God". But, when you really think about it, the rights we have are the rights our society has deemed we should have. We don't have the right to scream FIRE in a movie theatre if it's not on fire. And we don't have the right to kill someone else and take their kidney if we need one. Society has created rules defining our rights, not God.
Western human rights ideas uphold the idea that people are born equal. We think that people should be born equal. But no such equality is found in class society. As a matter of fact, inequality exists even before birth. The embryo in the womb of a rich mother enjoys better nutrition than that in a poor mother. Equality among people can only be acquired in the course of social progress.
I remember thinking about this as a child. That we don't all have the same rights, it seems to be the luck of the draw, who you happened to be born to (or adopted by). If you are rich and you are sick then there is a lot more open to you than if you are poor and you are sick. True, you have the right to emergency healthcare in this country, and a certain amount of indigent care if it's approved - but if you happen to own your home and make minimum wage and barely get by, then a long hospital stay could make you lose your home if you don't have insurance. The truly indigent can get hospital care, but the working poor often cannot without risking what they've worked all of their lives to have. Also, a child who is born to rich parents gets lots of toys, lots of vacations. A child born to poor parents does not. So, again, the Director makes a lot of sense. And I find it ironic that my thoughts as a child were that children of poor parents didn't get as many toys, but the director says they don't get the same nutrition. Goes back to Maslow's hierarchy about what is important.
Human rights not only involve political rights but also economic and social rights, being the combination of all of these.
So far I have agreed with him about the lack of "sameness" for economic and social rights, and I've even agreed that rights are not necessarily God given. I'm not so sure I'll agree on the political stuff. I know a Tibetan Monk who barely escaped Tibet with his life, and who personally witnessed the slaughter of thousands of Tibetans. China has done some absolutely horrid things in the very recent past. And they continue to do things that truly amount to genocide in Tibet.
Human rights first find expression in the rights to survival and development, which constitute the basis for all other rights. This is especially true of developing countries. For a starving man, which should he choose bread or ballot, if he is supposed to choose only one? The ballot is of course important. But he must feed himself with the bread before he can cast a ballot.
This is something many American's don't get. In some countries, people are more worried about surviving than anything else. If they don't get a good harvest, they may not survive the winter. Their whole lives revolve around making sure they can live through another year. They aren't worried about some of the stuff we worry so much about, because it is so unimportant to them. Again, Maslow's hierarchy: basic survival trumps everything else.
In addition, there are human rights enjoyed by the collective in addition to individuals' human rights. The individuals' interests are upheld via the realization of collective interests. So, China attaches importance to collective human rights as well as to individuals' human rights. This is in contrast to Western countries where much emphasis is put on individuals' human rights while collective human rights areneglected.
This was a big thing that I came away with when we left China. That the rights of the many trump the rights of the individual. And really, there are just so many people in China, I'm not sure that any other philosophy would really work.
On the one hand, human rights are universal in nature and their basic principles ought to be abided by in all countries. But on the other hand, human rights have specified connotations in different countries taking into account different levels of economic development, different social systems, varying cultural traditions and values and different religiousfaiths.
I will also agree with this. What we would find an essential right, for instance, the the right to free emergency room care, might not matter in the rural areas of China where the nearest hospital is a five hour train ride away. The other big difference I found within China is that we may think of the Chinese people as being oppressed by a communist government, they actually enjoy much more freedom and much less government oversight in their daily lives than we do. There don't appear to be traffic cops who will pull you over for breaking a traffic law - the status quo seems to be to do what you want as long as you don't cause an accident, if you cause an accident and you were breaking a traffic law then you will get a ticket, but otherwise, it's pretty much anything goes. Drive on whatever side of the road you want, drive as fast as you want, swing up on the sidewalk to go around cars that aren't going fast enough for you - whatever, as long as you don't cause an accident then go for it. There are no seatbelt laws, no one will pull you over and harass you for not wearing a seatbelt. There are no DUI checkpoints. And there are certainly no camera's at intersections that will mail you a ticket.
In view of this, human rights are the unity of the universal and the particular. The specifics of human rights vary from one country to another. The ways of realizing human rights also differ from each other in different countries. For example, in overpopulated countries, family planning programmes are in the interests of the vast majority of the people and, therefore, are in accord with human rights principles. In sparsely populated nations, however, encouragement of fertility can also be seen as a human right.
While most Chinese people are unhappy with the restrictions on number of children, the ones I've spoken with about this understand the reason for it and defend it as necessary. They know that people starved to death not so long ago. Many people. Imagine having from 2 to 4 out of every ten people you know die of starvation. It was that bad in many areas. And they know that if the population is allowed to grow unchecked that people will probably be starving to death again within a generation or two or three. The don't want that for their kids or grandkids, either. Better that babies not be born than that they be born and then starve to death... better to have less babies and have them live. So, they understand it, and wouldn't want to change it unless there could be assurances that everyone can continue to be fed. So, yes, in China's view, the one child policy (which is now the two child policy in many provinces), isn't a human rights violation, but it is there to protect human rights.. to make sure everyone has enough food to eat.
Some countries one-sidedly emphasize the universality of human rights whilst ignoring the particular nature of human rights, advocating the introduction of a unified human rights model in the world. This means imposing Western human rights ideas on the rest of the world.
And one thing that China hates is to have us impose our belief systems on them.
Human rights contain two integral parts rights and obligations. Or in other words, human rights are the unity of people's rights and their obligations. Each person should safeguard his or her own rights and respect others'. At the same time, each person ought to fulfil his or her obligations to society and other people. There are no rights that carry no obligationsin this world, and vice versa.
Remember what I said about how important personal responsibility is in China? It's huge. It's probably one of the most important parts of their culture, their mindset. It's part of what makes China what it is. And this paragraph speaks to that - that there is no right without an obligation attached to it.
Many people in Western countries emphasize exclusively the rights one should enjoy but neglect obligations, separating people's rights from obligations or setting these concepts against each other.
Exactly. People demand a right to free health care, but don't think about what kind of obligation they might have in order to make that happen. Someone has to pay the doctors, someone has to pay the builder's who build the hospital building, someone has to pay for the x-ray machines and the other equipment. China is fresh off of a grand experiment that did not work - Communism. They are now so far from communist it's not even funny. I'd say they are a Totalitarian Capitalist society now. Nothing is free anymore, you want it, you pay for it. However, in the US, we are rapidly headed toward Socialism, which is pretty close to the economic (but not the political) model of Communism.
Also, human rights are something covered by the sovereignty of a country. A country's sovereignty is the foremost collective human right. Human rights are the ultimate goal sovereignty tries to achieve. Andsovereignty is the guarantor of human rights.
Right, Tibet was sovereign without being a military power, and then China went in and slaughtered them, and Tibet is not sovereign anymore. What I think China is really saying is that if a country is strong enough economically and militarily then they can protect the rights of their citizens from other countries who may want to come in and rape and pillage the country. This has happened to China several times in the past couple of hundred years, and they don't intend for it to happen again.
In the humiliating old days, China was bullied by foreign powers. Its sovereignty was trampled on, and also the Chinese people's human rights. So the Chinese people know very well that sovereignty is a pre-condition to their enjoying human rights. In sum, there would be nohuman rights to speak of in the absence of sovereignty.
Which is why the Chinese have ramped up their military, they are now at a point where they will no longer be told what to do. If you haven't read of the opium wars, of the pillaging of the Forbidden City and the Summer Palace and other royal places, then you need to. China is still smarting from it. It may be way long ago history to us, but it's pretty recent history to them. They are also still horribly angry at the Japanese. I spoke with one gentlemen who was in his late 20's or early 30's who could not have possibly remembered the war, and the venomous hatred in his face as he discussed the Japanese people was pretty scary. They remember WWII like it happened five years ago. He pointed to places that had been damaged and said "This happened during The War of Japanese Aggression". I remember being shown a tree. The tree was over 800 years old. They knew the name of the person who planted it, and the month, day, and year it was planted. Compare that tree to the age of our country. They think of terms of millenia while we think in decades.
The human rights outlook of China has been formed in the practice of promoting human rights over a long time. This human rights outlook, in return, will help promote human rights practice in the country. With the development of the human rights cause, China's human rights outlookwill continue to develop and take on richer content.
As they continue to develop, continue down a path where people can worry about things other than survival, then their human rights philosophies will change. I get that. I do think that China has made great strides in the past decade. But they still have a long ways to go. And, while I agree with much of what was said in this statement/essay/report, I think they have purposefully skirted around many issues. Tibet is one that is close to my heart, but there are also many other issues that China needs to work on. Issues like freedom of the press, and religious freedoms. While things may not have changed as quickly as the students of the Tiananmen Uprising wanted, things have changed. I have great respect for the people of China, and for their culture and customs. I have hope that their government can find its way through the surge in technology, and the economic boom that has begun, and can grow in a way that most helps the country. And I hope that the Chinese people continue to gain rights and privileges as their government makes it's way into the future.

Monday, January 09, 2006

Another blogger weighs in on the China Doll thing

Go Omega Mom, Go. Well put.

Conflicting Rumors

I will have a very long post on my opinions about the Human Rights piece later, but for now I want to lament about conflicting rumors. A few agencies are giving timelines that would keep up the half months for at least another couple of months. They are assuming the wait will go to out to a year, maybe 14 months, before it starts coming down again. For us to reach 14 months, that means half months would have to continue until the last half of September would get referrals in November. Ouch. And yet there are other agencies preparing their September people for an April or May referral. That is so frustrating - can September people really be expected to believe our referral will arrive between May and November? That's just too big of a window, and it's why we are all so frustrated. Or at least it's why I'm so frustrated, and why I'm in search of any rumor I can find, trying to analyze them to figure out which have probability and which don't. Here is my most probable best case scenario. (Not actual best case scenario, but the best case that I can say has any probability, and that involves them averaging 5 weeks worth every month after CNY) LID's through May 12 before CNY. LID's through about June 16 by mid March. LID's through about July 21 by mid April LID's through end of August 25 by mid May LID's through September 29th by mid June So, even my most probable best case scenario isn't as optimistic as the two agencies who are saying April or May for the September people. Let's see what happens if we have them do 6 weeks worth of LID's a month after CNY. LID's through May 12 before CNY LID's through about June 23 by mid March. LID's through about August 4 by mid April LID's through about September 8 by mid May LID's through about October 13 by mid June That gets a little of September into May. Let's see what happens if they start doubling up on months - here is 8 weeks every four weeks LID's through May 12 before CNY LID's through about July 7 by mid March. LID's through about August 1 by mid April LID's through end of October 27 by mid May So, this one manages it - but how probable is it that they will start doubling up on months after CNY? I'm not sure it's all that probable. Possible, sure. Probable..... I really don't think so. I'd love to be proven wrong, though. I've been holding onto that May 12th date for before CNY because I have seen that date so many times, from so many different sources. But, obviously, if we add a week or two onto that, then September in May might be a bit easier to hit. Still, I just can't see it as being a probable scenario. Here is my most probable scenario, assuming the rumors back in the fall were correct that half months would continue until CNY and then they could go back to whole months. LID's through May 12 before CNY. LID's through about June 10 by mid March. LID's through about July 11 by mid April LID's through end of August 12 by mid May LID's through September 9 by mid June LID's through October 10th by mid July This assumes they just go back to the status quo and stop falling behind but don't do any catching up. I do feel that they will start catching up a little bit at some point, but I just don't know when that will be. It will be great if they jump right in and start picking away at the wait right after CNY, but it also might take them a while to get up enough speed to do that. So, my best scenario that I feel is probable is a referral for September in June/July. My worst scenario (that falls into the realm of probable) doesn't give September LID's a referral until October/November. I'm really trying to not think about that possibility, but since some agencies are warning the wait could go out as far as 14 months, I kind of have to have it in the back of my mind.

Sunday, January 08, 2006

Human Rights

The Executive Director of the China Society for Human Rights Studies posted the following. I'm still digesting it, and will post some of my thoughts on it later. Meanwhile, if any of you have comments or opinions, feel free to voice them. http://www.npfpc.gov.cn/en/en2005-12/enews20051212.htm

Human Rights can be Manifested Differently ( 2005-12-12)

A unique outlook on human rights has taken shape in China, the largest developing country in the world. It is founded on the basis of the country's own experience in human rights development over the last two decades since embarking on the road of reform and opening up in the late 1970s. China has also absorbed rational human rights ideas from other cultures.

Human rights are acquired by people instead of being given by God. Human rights are a product of social and historical situations. They are the rights society gives to its members. Western human rights ideas uphold the idea that people are born equal. We think that people should be born equal. But no such equality is found in class society. As a matter of fact, inequality exists even before birth. The embryo in the womb of a rich mother enjoys better nutrition than that in a poor mother. Equality among people can only be acquired in the course of social progress. Human rights not only involve political rights but also economic and social rights, being the combination of all of these. Human rights first find expression in the rights to survival and development, which constitute the basis for all other rights. This is especially true of developing countries. For a starving man, which should he choose bread or ballot, if he is supposed to choose only one? The ballot is of course important. But he must feed himself with the bread before he can cast a ballot. In addition, there are human rights enjoyed by the collective in addition to individuals' human rights. The individuals' interests are upheld via the realization of collective interests. So, China attaches importance to collective human rights as well as to individuals' human rights. This is in contrast to Western countries where much emphasis is put on individuals' human rights while collective human rights are neglected. On the one hand, human rights are universal in nature and their basic principles ought to be abided by in all countries. But on the other hand, human rights have specified connotations in different countries taking into account different levels of economic development, different social systems, varying cultural traditions and values and different religious faiths. In view of this, human rights are the unity of the universal and the particular. The specifics of human rights vary from one country to another. The ways of realizing human rights also differ from each other in different countries. For example, in overpopulated countries, family planning programmes are in the interests of the vast majority of the people and, therefore, are in accord with human rights principles. In sparsely populated nations, however, encouragement of fertility can also be seen as a human right. Some countries one-sidedly emphasize the universality of human rights whilst ignoring the particular nature of human rights, advocating the introduction of a unified human rights model in the world. This means imposing Western human rights ideas on the rest of the world. Human rights contain two integral parts rights and obligations. Or in other words, human rights are the unity of people's rights and their obligations. Each person should safeguard his or her own rights and respect others'. At the same time, each person ought to fulfil his or her obligations to society and other people. There are no rights that carry no obligations in this world, and vice versa. Many people in Western countries emphasize exclusively the rights one should enjoy but neglect obligations, separating people's rights from obligations or setting these concepts against each other. Also, human rights are something covered by the sovereignty of a country. A country's sovereignty is the foremost collective human right. Human rights are the ultimate goal sovereignty tries to achieve. And sovereignty is the guarantor of human rights. In the humiliating old days, China was bullied by foreign powers. Its sovereignty was trampled on, and also the Chinese people's human rights. So the Chinese people know very well that sovereignty is a pre-condition to their enjoying human rights. In sum, there would be no human rights to speak of in the absence of sovereignty. It is quite normal that disputes exist over the understanding of human rights, which mirror the different conditions the countries find themselves in and also the pluralistic nature of the world. All nations ought to promote human rights progress by expanding mutual understanding, finding as much common ground as possible and bridging differences. This can be achieved via dialogue and co-operation, based on the principles of equality and mutual respect. The human rights outlook of China has been formed in the practice of promoting human rights over a long time. This human rights outlook, in return, will help promote human rights practice in the country. With the development of the human rights cause, China's human rights outlook will continue to develop and take on richer content. The Universal Declaration of Human Rights is the first international document ever to put forward the principle of respecting and guaranteeing the most fundamental of human rights, reflecting the importance attached by the international community to the promotion of human rights and basic freedom. China's human rights outlook is in keeping with the basic principles of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. The Chinese people's upholding of human rights and their practice in this respect are their contributions to the world human rights cause. (The author is the Executive Director of the China Society for Human Rights Studies)

(Tian Dan, China Daily)

Saturday, January 07, 2006

Juicy Rumor

Someone with a September LID has been told by their agency to expect their referral in April or May. Apparently they got this time frame from BLAS, the translation service just down the hall from the CCAA. The Spanish site also seems to get a lot of their info from BLAS, and it seems to be pretty accurate. Do I dare get my hopes up? I don't know. April or May, that's three or four months away. Wow.

Friday, January 06, 2006

The "China Doll" thing

There is an FCC type group a town or two away from us. They call their group the China Dolls. They've been on the news doing charity stuff, and they are just generally on the news every couple of months. It drives me crazy. My mom wanted to call my daughter her little China Doll - I had to have a huge argument with my parents before we even travelled. They were going to call her that whether I liked it or not. After all, the group a couple of towns away uses it, so I obviously had no idea what I was talking about. I tried to explain to them that most Asians feel that it is a throwback on prostitution, especially since that is what the Asian prostitutes were called during one of the war's. Most Asian's consider it a horrible racial slur, not to mention demeaning to women. My mom said "if you don't tell her she won't know - and it's cute and I'm going to use it". I asked her if she thought her grandaughter would never read a history book, would never talk to other Asians. And how would she feel at 16 to learn that what she thought had been a term of endearment was actually a racial slur against Asians - she'd be pissed as hell and would have every right to be. My mom dropped it, and I haven't heard it from her since. The group in the next city is still calling themselves that, though. We were camping the first summer home with our daughter. While we were out walking we started talking to an elderly gentlemen. He told us he had 16 grandkids and four of them were adopted, but he often had a hard time remembering which four, as they were all his grandkids and it didn't really matter. He then said that his daughter and son-in-law had started a group in their city (not in the city beside us, another one, several states away) and were calling it the China Dolls. I put my hand to my mouth and said "Oh NO", and then I explained to him that the term is considered a racial slur that refers to Asian prostitutes. He was horrified, was sure that his daughter didn't know that, and was going to tell her. I hope that they changed the name, maybe I managed to save some grief for a handful of kids. We were eating out once and a lady stopped by our table and said our little China Doll was so cute. I said "Oh NOOOO, she's a real live person, she's not a doll". I could make a whole post out of the things people have said to us when eating out or when shopping or when in line at the grocery store. But, back to the group a town or two away from us. I think I would have a problem with them even if they didn't use such an offensive term. It is a pretty small town - you know the kind, they have two exits on the interstate. And this very small (but very affluent) town has about 40 families who have adopted from China. But, the kicker is that all but about five of them attend the same church. It has turned into the "trendy" thing to do for those churchmembers. Their child is like an accessory to them, a status symbol. I've seen newspaper articles that talk about it like having an internationally adopted child is the latest fashion accessory - but knowing how these families act, I know that those newspapers aren't so far off of the mark. And that sickens me. We chose international adoption for a number of reasons - the most notable being the sad legal state of domestic adoptions. There have been instances where the birthmom lied about who the birthfather was, and five years later the birthfather managed to get joint custody of the child with the a-parents. There are cases where the birthfather managed to get full custody a year later. And there are cases where grandparents manage to get mandatory visitation, every other weekend. Now, I would honestly have no problem with allowing birth grandparents to be part of a child's life, but the whole mandatory EOW thing would piss me off. Family vacations would have to be worked around it, classes and games would be a problem every other weekend - it's just not for me. Mentally, I just needed to know that once the adoption was final that it was final, and no one could come back and contest it later. That is 90% of the reason we went international instead of domestic. Of course, there are a zillion reasons we chose China over the other countries - but every family has to make their own decisions. What is right for one family won't be right for another family. But, if you choose to call your child a China Doll, maybe China wasn't the right country for you.

Thursday, January 05, 2006

Mandarin

I believe the best language for American's to have as a second language is soon going to be Mandarin Chinese. Many schools are now starting to teach it, here is a Washington Post article about one such school district in Portland, Oregon. I've seen the arguments on APC - do you send your child to Chinese school or do you let them be "normal". I have a problem with the premise of the question, because the question makes it sound like a child who goes to Chinese school is not normal. I don't know what interests my child will have, I will try to provide classes or lessons for whatever she wants to do. But she will also go to Chinese school, and we plan to eventually have one day a week that our family will only speak Chinese, no English allowed. We can all speak a little bitty bit of it right now - we all have a vocabulary of several hundred words, but you can't really go through a whole day on just that many words. Not yet, anyway. It would be nice if the school my daughter attends includes Chinese classes. We haven't completely narrowed the field down yet, but none of the ones on our A list offer it. Maybe that will change before too much longer.

Referrals have arrived, rumors are rampant

MaryMia has links so you can see the new babies. I've seen every rumor imaginable. One DTC group has convinced themselves that the CCAA has actually reviewed several months past May but just doesn't want to tell us. They are pretty sure this means a rapid speed up. They may be right on that one, they almost have me convinced. They also have a theory around the length of time it took for you to be LID, something along the lines of "if you were LID quickly then there weren't many dossiers being submitted so you'll be part of a catch-up month". The only problem with that is that one person with a LID of 7/25 was DTC a week before, while another was DTC a month before... so I'm not sure there can really be a correlation there. Same if you look at DTC dates - same DTC date can have LID's a month apart. A couple of agencies are telling their May people they may get their referral in the "next couple of weeks". At least two agencies are telling their clients they do not expect another batch of referrals until after CNY. As always, no one knows. I will continue to think that the "new orphanage" is a very good sign though, and that maybe a speed-up is finally on the horizon.

XingYe SWI

There is a post on APC that makes it look like maybe we have a new orphanage in the international program.
Hi all! I received my referral today from the XingYe SWI in the Guangxi Province. Has anyone heard of or has received a referral from that SWI? I am trying to find a yahoo group or info about it?
If this is the case, and they are referring out of an orphanage never referred out of before, then we really could be coming to the end of the slowdown. Of course, the question remains, has the CCAA pulled enough new orphanages into the international program to just keep the current status quo, or to actually speed things back up.

Wednesday, January 04, 2006

Burger King Ignoramus

No, this is not adoption related. Our family does not really do fast food. We just don't. My daughter has never eaten at McDonalds or Taco Bell. I'm sure someday she'll talk about her deprived childhood because of it, but that's just the way it is. We were out shopping and our daughter was hungry and we needed to eat really quick because we had a lot to do. I saw us coming up on a Burger King and said "oh, they have veggie burgers, let's just eat there". So we pull in. I ask for a veggie burger in the kid's meal, they say they can't do that. Bummer, but, whatever. I order us veggie burgers and fries. Then I see something on the menu, it says that they have Little Tikes toys available upon request. I ask about it, the guy gets the manager. The manager says I should have ordered a kids meal if I wanted a toy. I said "I asked for a veggie burger in a kid's meal, but was told I couldn't get that". He said "why would you want a veggie burger in a kid's meal?". Arg. I told him we are vegetarians. And he says "you could have gotten chicken tenders in it". I said "no, we are vegetarians, no chicken, look the menu says Little Tikes toys available upon request, are they not really available?" And then the man starts almost ranting that chicken is not meat and I should have just gotten chicken tenders in the kids meal. I just looked at him, trying not to say "are you really that stupid?". After a very long pause, as I really hoped he'd figure out what a stupid thing he'd just said.... I finally, very quietly, said "you have to kill the chicken before you can eat it, we prefer not to eat dead animals". He stared at me about ten or fifteen seconds as his brain worked through that one, and finally went and got a toy. A crappy toy that really wasn't worth that conversation. No more Burger King for us. Maybe ever. Sheesh.

Tuesday, January 03, 2006

Waiting for referrals

They should start hitting the lists soon. And then there are a dozen or so blogs that will finally be able to announce their daughter. I can't wait. For anyone who needs a quick fix to tide them over until referrals start hitting the lists, here is a blog with pictures of a wonderful gotcha day.

Monday, January 02, 2006

Pissing contest

Am I the only one who wishes we could just put Bob and Terry on a porch somewhere and have them whip it out and get the pissing contest over and done with, once and for all? Maybe somewhere with lots of snow, so it will be easy to tell who won. The last thing we want is even more essays arguing the point of who won and why, and you know they'd both come up with some persuasive argument, no matter who pissed the farthest. Oh, never mind... it would just be more cause for yet more bloviating.

CCAA New Year Schedule

According to our agency, the CCAA will be closed Jan 1, 2, and 3 and will return to work on the 4th. Chinese New Year will be Jan 29 to Feb 5 and they will return to work on the 6th. I really don't expect to see any more referrals until the very end of January (which will probably arrive the first week of February). I'd like to see a months worth, but really only expect another two or maybe three weeks worth. I know there are rumors that more are to come out this week and go through 5/10, but with them being closed two days this week, that just doesn't make a lot of sense. I was thinking though - wouldn't it be great for them to start sending referrals out twice a month instead of once a month? That might be harder on the agencies who would then have to manage twice as many travel groups, but it would mean that half of those receiving referrals would get them two weeks earlier. No real reason to think the CCAA might start doing this, just a random thought. So, back to real rumors and analysis - since the CCAA is out of the office until Jan 4 (which will be the evening of the 3rd for us), we can't expect to see any change to their website until then, and probably not until a few days after. I'm not really expecting to see a change in the referral information, but the review room info has been the same for a really long time. I'd like to see June come out of the review room soon. My best guess right now (as in, most probable) for referrals is: Late Jan/Early Feb - through May 10-ish. Mid March - through June 10-ish Mid April - through mid July Mid May - through mid August Mid June - through mid September I think it's possible that they will start doing five or even six weeks worth every month at some point, but I don't know how long it will take them to be able to do that. It really depends on how quickly they can bring the new orphanages into the program, and how quickly those orphanages start sending paperwork for babies. I believe that they are expecting paperwork from those new orphanages to begin arriving in February/March, which is why we've seen the rumors that the slowdown would only continue through CNY and then they would go back to whole months. Every referral batch we get, I look for new orphanages. If any of you receive a referral from an orphanage that doesn't appear to have been adopted from before, please let me know, as that would be most exciting.